Advocating for the rights of all consenting adults to have the right to sex, residence, love, and marriage without limits on the gender, number, or relation of participants. 


The right to be with whomever you choose as long as all are consenting adults should be a basic human right.


Relationship and marriage equality have come a long way. However, we still have a very long way to go to achieve FULL marriage equality for ALL consenting adults. With public awareness, more people reaching out, and people willing to take action, we can achieve more and more to reach our goals and change the oppressive laws that are currently in place. I am here to help people with referrals, advice, networking, furthering awareness, and doing whatever I can to help. I am nonjudgmental, and I personally know many people in "forbidden", "taboo", or "unconventional" relationships. I myself was adopted as a child, and have personal experience with GSA (Genetic Sexual Attraction), after being reunited with biological family members.  Please know that you are not alone. You are not a freak, nor are you sick or deranged for loving another consenting adult. There is nothing wrong with you, and love can happen to anyone at any time.  I encourage you to check out my website and the links provided. And if you wish to contact me, I welcome anyone who wants to talk confidentially. 

Lilys Gardener